Wheel Of Consent writing

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consent permission

Consent – why permission is not enough

September 22, 2021

If you want to borrow my car you need to get my permission. But what about if you want me to drive it for you? Find out about the other essential consent dynamic we don’t even have a name for

interactions after lockdown

3 easy tips to help you navigate your interactions after lockdown

April 12, 2021

Anxious about re-engaging with interactions after lockdown? Here are 3 simple ways you can help yourself – and others – feel more comfortable

ask for consent

How to ask for consent – the 6 essential words you need

March 1, 2021

From the bedroom to the boardroom (and everywhere else as well) – when you start to use these 6 little words, you may be surprised by how useful you find them!

how to say yes and no

How to tell if you should say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something

January 12, 2021

It’s not what you say, it’s why you say it. Follow these simple steps and learn how to tell when to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ to something.

I don't know what I want

Why it’s OK to say ‘I don’t know what I want’

September 29, 2020

2 (and a half) top tips to help you overcome the fear of getting stuck in ‘I don’t know what I want’. How choice and change can become your friends.

Articles about the Wheel Of Consent

The New York Times, 15 Dec 2020

Interview with Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin of the School Of Consent

"This year, physical distance and safety became part of a suddenly urgent conversation for everyone. But for educators focused on intimacy and consent, questions about bodies and boundaries are a constant focus" by Julia Carmel

The Guardian, 19 May 2019

Tears, honesty and flirty games: how we escaped our married sex rut.

"After 15 years and three children, my husband and I found ourselves stuck in an ‘intimacy impasse’. Could a therapist help us sizzle again?" Liz Allen explores her options, including the 'game-changer' of the Wheel of Consent.