Wheel Of Consent writing

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How to get better at receiving

April 18, 2023

If you want to get better at receiving these tips will help you understand how it works, and what to look out for

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Why it’s good to take

February 18, 2023

Taking doesn’t have to just mean ‘taking advantage’. Find out why it’s important for you to develop your skills to take consentingly

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Better gift giving – what’s the secret?

December 9, 2022

Are you giving for the right reasons? Discover how to tell if your giving is really for the other person, or whether you’re giving as a way to meet your own needs

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Why good boundaries actually create more freedom

October 26, 2022

Good boundaries are an important way to create more freedom in relationships. Discover why and learn a new way to think about your boundaries

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Why touch is so important – and so challenging

August 25, 2022

It’s vital for wellbeing, but most of us also find it challenging. Learn more about this essential sense, and how to reclaim it for yourself

Articles about the Wheel Of Consent

The New York Times, 15 Dec 2020

Interview with Robyn Dalzen and Betty Martin of the School Of Consent

"This year, physical distance and safety became part of a suddenly urgent conversation for everyone. But for educators focused on intimacy and consent, questions about bodies and boundaries are a constant focus" by Julia Carmel

The Guardian, 19 May 2019

Tears, honesty and flirty games: how we escaped our married sex rut.

"After 15 years and three children, my husband and I found ourselves stuck in an ‘intimacy impasse’. Could a therapist help us sizzle again?" Liz Allen explores her options, including the 'game-changer' of the Wheel of Consent.