The Joy Of Touch – for couples

Online learning options available

A simple, illuminating practice for couples to improve touch and communication – so you can BOTH get a touch experience you really enjoy

Couples - improve the quality of your touch, and bring the joy of touch (back) into your relationship.

The benefits (and challenges) of touch in a relationship are clear.

But is touch with your partner stuck in a rut, disappointing, or boring? Do you find it hard to tell them when you’d like touch to stop or change?

The Joy Of Touch is a hands-on, practical alternative to traditional couples coaching, which will help you improve your experiences of touch.

Learn a simple practice, and tools that will help you notice, and communicate, what feels good for each of you, so you can both enjoy touch together.

This practice is win-win – eliminate the guesswork when it comes to pleasing your partner… and get to be touched the way you really want.

Watch the video to learn more.

Is it for you?

This is for you if you’re a couple and:

  • You want to improve your relating, but don't want traditional talk-based couples coaching
  • Touch in your relationship has become stuck in a rut or disappointing and you want to change that
  • You’d like to get better at knowing how your body wants to be touched
  • You want to learn to communicate better to your partner about the touch you like
  • You’re tired of trying to be a mind-reader when touching your partner
  • You’d like to learn a fun way to practice and enjoy touch together

Imagine being able to to choose touch which feels ‘Wow’, instead of just putting up with ‘Meh’

"A joyful, freeing and creative process. I now feel I have a better sense of what I want, how to communicate that, and how to create a more harmonious relationship"

Jez, Scotland


"Wonderful and insightful...I finally was able to discover the kind of touch and pace of touch I like, and need, in order to experience pleasure"

Alberto, USA

Learn the Joy Of Touch with me

Based on practices from the Wheel Of Consent, the heart of this practice is about creating the opportunity to bring full focus to your body and your desires. To experience how it feels when you don’t have to reciprocate or worry about your partner, but can simply enjoy receiving touch the way YOU want to. For this reason the practices in these sessions concentrate on one-way touch exchanges, rather than mutual ones.

IMPORTANT NOTE: Prices shown for in-person intensives are to work with me at my home base near Findhorn, Scotland. To work with me in Edinburgh or London please add £160 per day. This covers the cost of the venue I use which is secure and suitable for this sensitive work.

Take your next step...

If you're interested the next step is to book a free, no-obligation Clarity Call with me.  This is an informal Zoom call of up to 30 minutes. It's your opportunity to ask any questions you might have, and for me to make sure I'm able to offer what you're looking for.

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