How To Be Heard
Welcome to your How To Be Heard download
One of the practices I use when teaching the Wheel Of Consent is called Listening Buddies, and that’s what I’m sharing with you here. It’s a very simple (but surprisingly powerful) practice, which you can do in as little as 5 minutes.
It involves talking so you’ll need someone to do it with, but it works just as well online (with a camera) as it does in person.
You don’t have do it with someone you know well (in fact sometimes it can be a more profound experience with someone you’re not so close to). Equally it’s a great practice for couples to help build better communication.
I’ve got two resources for you:
Firstly a video where I talk through why the practice works, and how it’s structured. It’s good to watch this to start with if it’s your first time here.
Secondly there a downloadable PDF with all the steps, and top tips, which you can keep with you when you’re using the practice.
I hope you find this practice helpful!
Each quadrant in the Wheel Of Consent creates a different experience and teaches you something different about yourself. Learn more about each one:
Enjoyed reading this?
If you've found this page helpful you can get more tips and resources for better relating straight to your inbox. Sign up here and get my free How To Be Heard guide to start you off:
Why it’s good to take
Taking doesn’t have to just mean ‘taking advantage’. Find out why it’s important for you to develop your skills to take consentinglyRead More
Wheel Of Consent Downloads
Wheel Of Consent resources for you to download: Wheel of Consent diagram 3 Minute Game Booklet For Me For You Game All Quadrants key practical pointers I also offer online practice sessions for anyone who’s taken a Wheel Of Consent workshop of 1 day or longer with me or any other School Of Consent…Read More
Better gift giving – what’s the secret?
Are you giving for the right reasons? Discover how to tell if your giving is really for the other person, or whether you’re giving as a way to meet your own needsRead More
Events & courses
Learn To Touch – Supported Self Study Course
Online. Discover a whole new approach to touch that will change how you feel – literally! A short, affordable, practical guide you can learn in less than an hour a day.Read More